If thats the friend you talked/posted about in the past its the response you should have expected.
A long time ago I realized there is no fraternization with witnesses. My wife after 5 years is finally starting to figure that out.
Not to sound cold (but my name is frosty) JWs are brainwashed and you just dont know when that ticking time bomb of JW conditioning is going to kick in. Live your life enjoy you BF and tell us about some great trips and your learning experience at uni.